tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204080274406469.post4251682667519227486..comments2023-05-27T01:23:41.984-07:00Comments on Barbaric Poetries: If That's Your Boyfriend: A Wake-Up Callchristopher lirettehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/07995726854485863726noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204080274406469.post-23674653648453710642012-04-25T21:49:22.170-07:002012-04-25T21:49:22.170-07:00While this song may initially appear to be a simpl...While this song may initially appear to be a simple account of a woman who steals other people’s boyfriends, I agree with Jamie that this song actually has a much deeper meaning. Although it may seem like Ndegeocello is trying to attack other women in this song, I agree that what she is really trying to do is reveal how easily women can be manipulated and how foolish their jealous fights can be. Jamie mentioned that the chorus of the song (“Boyfriend, boyfriend, yes I have your boyfriend”) has a sing-song tone that taunts the girlfriends that Ndegeocello is addressing. I believe that the purpose of this taunting is not to attack these women but rather to show how immature and catty women can be. Although Ndegeocello does mention the man she is stealing in this song, the focus of the song is on her and the man’s girlfriend. Ndegeocello even makes claims about the man’s relationship with his girlfriend in lines such as, “Grew upset cuz you one stuck up bitch/ Maybe he needed a change a switch,” but we never actually get to see the perspective of the boyfriend himself. Therefore, I definitely agree with Jamie that this song is “less about the aforementioned exploits of [Ndegeocello’s] persona and more about the women she affects.” Ndegeocello is trying to make a point about how women are constantly attacking each other and letting their jealousy get the best of them. While people generally tend to focus on the power struggle between women and men, Ndegeocello creates an interesting twist here by focusing on the struggle between women and other women instead.Kyrstenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15302229242830118794noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9204080274406469.post-71003726875561093402012-04-22T12:23:07.447-07:002012-04-22T12:23:07.447-07:00This is a very interesting and possibly accurate v...This is a very interesting and possibly accurate view on this song by Meshell Ndegeocello. Despite the victims being diverse, I agree that they are unified by their "jealousy, pain, and self-hate."<br /><br />However, I seemed to be on the fence with Jamie's statement, "Each woman’s life revolves around pleasing “her” man, simultaneously fighting off his other potential love interests." I believe this view is more a personal view of the subject that Meshell Ndegeocello is portraying to the audience, but one that shouldn't be categorized for all women.<br /><br />I like the observation that Meshell Ndegeocello was portrayed as a "strong" masculine figure in the video, as it furthers my point that she is trying to speak from universalize her opinion to what everyone believes (in order to speak about all females). Such a portrayal as a powerful male figure gives the audience some assurance that this story is not told from just another female that falls victim to the story being told. This, as Jamie says, is a wake-up call, not to be disregarded as an exaggerated story from a victim of this bad experience. Meshell Ndegeocello tries, and does so successfully in my opinion, to get such a point across to her listeners.B.LINTONhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08459624388636866448noreply@blogger.com